Costly Estate Planning Misconceptions You Need to Stop Believing

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Are you putting off estate planning because you don't know where to start? You've known for a while that it's important. But somewhere between knowing it needs to be done and feeling confident enough to do it, you get confused about how Louisiana inheritance laws really work.

Louisiana is the only civil law state in the country. Our laws regarding marriage, property, inheritance, and succession are fundamentally different from the laws in the other 49 states. Advice from a general online article, a friend in another state, or even a well-meaning family member may not apply here at all.

The result is that many Louisiana families are making decisions, or avoiding them, based on misconceptions. Some of those misconceptions carry serious consequences. Here are seven of the most common ones, and the truth behind each one.

Misconception #1: My Spouse Will Automatically Inherit Everything

In Louisiana, your spouse does not automatically inherit everything when you die. Under Louisiana's intestate succession laws (the rules that apply when there is no will), all of your biological and adopted children inherit everything you own before anyone else. That includes children from a previous relationship. If you have a blended family, the consequences of dying without a will can be especially difficult to untangle.

Without a will, your surviving spouse inherits usufruct over community property. Usufruct is the legal right to use and enjoy property, such as the right to stay in the family home, but it is not ownership.

Your spouse cannot sell the home, refinance it, or make major decisions about it without the consent of the children who legally own it. In blended families, that can mean a surviving spouse shares decision-making authority over the family home with their children and stepchildren. That situation creates conflict, even in families where everyone has good intentions. A will allows you to protect your spouse.

Misconception #2: I Can Use an Online Service to Create My Will

Generic online will forms are a real problem for Louisiana families because of how different our laws are from every other state in the country.

Louisiana's legal system is based on the Napoleonic Code. Our laws around how a will must be drafted and signed are unique. A fill-in-the-blank form designed for a common law state often does not meet the technical requirements of Louisiana law. Even if it did, it still may not serve your family well.

You can have a document that is correctly signed but still leaves your family with serious problems. A judge may consider your will invalid if it does not address issues of forced heirship, community property, and usufruct.

Legal and technical requirements are the difference between a document that protects your family and one that creates more problems than it solves. If you want a will that works in Louisiana, it should be prepared by a legal professional who understands Louisiana law.

Misconception #3: I Don't Own Enough to Need a Will

The widespread idea that estate planning is only for wealthy people can cause devastating consequences for families.

A will lets you determine who gets what you have and under what circumstances. Even if your only assets are a home, a car, and a checking account, those assets can create complications for your family if you die without a will, especially if you have children from a previous relationship or you are in a blended family.

Without a will, all of your biological and adopted children inherit before anyone else. If your children are from a previous relationship, your surviving spouse may end up co-owning your home with them. People who may barely know each other are put in the position of making shared decisions about property during an already painful time. Regardless of how good the relationships are, the law creates complicated situations that good intentions cannot always resolve.

The size of your estate does not determine how your decisions affect your family. Even with modest estates, not having a will can create difficult unintended consequences for the people left behind, and you lose control over who manages that process.

Misconception #4: I Don't Need a Will Because I Trust My Family to Do the Right Thing

Being able to trust your family is a beautiful thing. But it is not a legal document.

If you are a Louisiana resident and you die without a will, state law dictates who inherits from you, who comes first, who comes last, how much they get, and who will get nothing at all. The law does not know your family. It does not know your wishes. It does not know which relationships are complicated, which family members are estranged, or who you would have trusted to make decisions on your behalf.

Families that fully intend to do right by each other can still find themselves in conflict when the law produces an outcome no one anticipated. That can look like a surviving spouse who did not expect to co-own their home with stepchildren, siblings who disagree about what a parent would have wanted, or adult children who are suddenly co-owners of property with no clear plan for what to do next.

These situations happen to families who love each other and trust each other completely.

Trusting your family is not a substitute for a will. Even if they already know your wishes, a will ensures that no one has to guess and your wishes will be honored.

Misconception #5: All My Children Will Inherit Equally

Many parents assume that whatever they leave behind will be divided equally among their children. In most cases, that is true. However, Louisiana's forced heirship law can complicate that assumption in ways most people do not see coming, and a will alone may not be enough to change it.

Louisiana is the only state in the country with forced heirship laws. Children who are 23 years old or younger, and children of any age who have a disability that permanently prevents them from caring for themselves are considered forced heirs. They are entitled to a certain portion of your estate regardless of what your will says.

The size of the forced portion depends on how many forced heirs you have:

  • One forced heir is entitled to 25% of your estate

  • Two or more forced heirs are entitled to 50% of your estate, divided equally among them

You cannot disinherit a forced heir. If your will attempts to leave a forced heir less than their entitled portion (called the legitime), that heir has the right to file a claim against your estate.

Misconception #6: Louisiana Recognizes Common-Law Marriage

This misconception puts unmarried couples in long-term committed relationships at serious risk, and it is one of the most costly assumptions an unmarried couple can make about where they stand as an heir.

Louisiana does not recognize common-law marriage. Unmarried couples have no automatic inheritance rights. No matter how long you have been together, how you publicly refer to each other, the depth of your commitment, and how intertwined your finances and lives become, none of that makes you an heir under Louisiana law.

If you buy a home together as an unmarried couple and your partner dies without a will, their estate will pass according to Louisiana's intestate succession laws, which do not recognize you as an heir. Your deceased partner's family could become co-owners with you, putting you at risk of losing your home, half the money in joint bank accounts, or access to assets you had always assumed would be yours.

Louisiana is the only civil law state in the country. The rules here are not the same as in other states, and assumptions based on what someone heard happened elsewhere can be costly. For unmarried couples, estate planning is the only way you can protect each other.

Misconception #7: I Can Take Care of Estate Planning Later

Waiting is also a costly estate planning decision. By the time a crisis forces the issue, you may no longer be able to sign the legal documents that protect you and your family.

If you have lost the ability to make reasoned decisions and communicate clearly, you cannot work with a legal professional to create or finalize those documents. Families find themselves in this situation more often than anyone expects, and the window to plan closes much faster than you realize.

Powers of attorney protect you while you are alive. A will takes effect after you die. If you become seriously ill or are involved in an accident before those documents are in place, the people responsible for taking care of you will have limited legal authority to act on your behalf.

The right time to plan is before your family finds itself in the middle of a medical crisis.

What These 7 Misconceptions Have in Common

Every misconception in this article comes from people applying common law rules to our civil law system. General online articles, out-of-state advice, and well-meaning advice from family and friends may not reflect what Louisiana law says or does.

Problems happen because of the gap between what people assume and what is true. Your spouse can be left without clear authority over your family home. Your children may inherit in ways no one expected. You and your partner could end up with no legal rights at all.

These outcomes are preventable with the right information, guidance, and support from a knowledgeable Louisiana legal professional.

Getting Your Affairs in Order Is an Act of Love

Estate planning is about protecting the people you love by not leaving a mess behind. It ensures that if something happens to you, your family will not experience unnecessary anxiety, fear, and stress when they are already dealing with loss.

Here is what you now know:

  1. Louisiana law does not automatically protect your spouse. Without a will, your children inherit first.

  2. Louisiana residents should not use online will forms. A document that is incorrectly prepared can create more problems than it solves.

  3. The size of your estate has nothing to do with needing a will. Even modest estates can create difficult, unintended consequences without a will.

  4. Trusting your family is not a substitute for a will. State law dictates who inherits from you if you do not put your wishes in writing by creating a will.

  5. Louisiana's forced heirship law guarantees certain children a portion of your estate regardless of what your will says. You cannot disinherit a forced heir.

  6. Louisiana does not recognize common-law marriage. Unmarried partners have no automatic inheritance rights.

  7. Waiting is itself a decision. By the time a crisis forces the issue, the window to plan may already be closed.

Frequently Asked Questions

Does my spouse automatically inherit my home if I die without a will?

No. Without a will, all of your biological and adopted children inherit ownership of your property. Your surviving spouse inherits usufruct over community property. That is the right to use the property, not to own it. In practical terms, that often means your spouse can continue living in the home, but your children would be the legal owners. This can create serious complications in blended families.

Are online wills valid in Louisiana?

Generic online will forms are generally not valid in Louisiana. We are a civil law state with specific requirements for how wills must be drafted and signed. A generic online form created for a common law state will likely not meet those requirements.

What is forced heirship in Louisiana?

Forced heirship is a Louisiana law that guarantees certain children a portion of your estate regardless of what your will says. It applies to children 23 years old or younger, and to children of any age who have a disability that permanently prevents them from taking care of themselves. One forced heir is entitled to 25% of your estate. Two or more forced heirs are entitled to 50% of your estate, divided equally among them.

Does Louisiana recognize common-law marriage?

No. Louisiana does not recognize common-law marriage. Unmarried couples have no inheritance rights without estate planning documents specifically granting you those rights. No matter how long you have lived together, the surviving partner has no automatic claim to the deceased partner's estate without a valid will.

What is the difference between usufruct and ownership in Louisiana?

Usufruct is the legal right to use and benefit from property without owning it, such as the right to live in a home. Ownership is title to the property, including the right to sell, transfer, or make major decisions about it. Without a will, your surviving spouse automatically inherits usufruct over community property, while all biological and adopted children inherit your ownership interest in the property (called naked ownership).

What happens if I die without a will in Louisiana?

Louisiana's intestate succession laws apply. All of your biological and adopted children inherit first, before your spouse. Your surviving spouse inherits usufruct over community property. If you have no children, other family members can inherit a portion of your estate. State law dictates who inherits from you, who comes first, who comes last, how much they get, and who will get nothing at all. Your wishes and intentions are not considered. The state does not know your family, your circumstances, or what you would have wanted. It is best to have your will prepared by a knowledgeable legal professional if you want to ensure your wishes are honored.

Why is Louisiana different from other states when it comes to estate planning?

Every other state operates under a common law system. Louisiana's civil law system is based on the Napoleonic Code. The rules governing marriage, property, inheritance, and succession are fundamentally different. Advice, forms, and legal strategies from other states simply do not apply here.

Next Steps

Now that you know the truth behind these seven misconceptions, it's time to do something about it.

Download this free guide, Getting Your Affairs in Order. It walks you through how powers of attorney and wills protect your family, why waiting creates unnecessary stress and limited options, and it includes a worksheet and checklist to help you start thinking through your decisions.

Listen to Fundamental Estate Planning Simplified™, a private, on-demand audio series for anyone who wants a deeper understanding of estate planning in Louisiana before taking their next step. You will learn how estate planning protects your family and ensures that your wishes are honored both before and after your death.Listen to a few episodes here.

Schedule a telephone consultation here. You already know that getting your affairs in order is important. What you may not know is exactly where to start. Have a conversation with me about your goals. You will walk away with answers to your questions and the information you need to make more informed decisions about how to move forward.

Paula Vincent Johnson

Paula Vincent Johnson is a Louisiana civil law notary in private practice since 2004. She could talk all day about the powerful impact and simplicity of basic estate planning in Louisiana. She loves sharing her knowledge and experience to help families avoid the pitfalls of waiting until the last minute to get their affairs in order. She is on a mission to empower her community with information, guidance, and support in creating positive legacies so they can live better lives. That’s why the primary focus of her notarial practice is powers of attorney, wills, small succession affidavits, and transfers of inherited property. Paula recently served on the board of the Louisiana Notary Association, and as host/coordinator of regular virtual statewide meetings during the height of the pandemic. For five years, Paula served as an instructor at the association’s annual conventions and speaker at its in-person monthly meetings throughout southern Louisiana. Paula especially enjoys working with her clients, as well as mentoring and educating new and experienced notaries. She is an avid reader (nowadays audio book listener) and loves to binge watch legal dramas (television and movies).

While Paula is an expert in her field, she is not an attorney. The information presented on this website should not be taken as, nor is it intended to be a substitute for, legal advice.

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